Respect yourself enough to walk away

I think one of the hardest things about BPD is feeling like you care more about other people than they do about you. You give your time to them, listen to them, offer advice and a shoulder to lean on, try your best to listen and comfort them, but then when you need any form [...]

BPD & Fear of Abandonment

Living with this fear of abandonment is so hard, they say we're not our mental illness, but it's so hard to separate the two; me, and my illness. For example I've had this one friend I've known for 16 years, we've been on and off friends that whole time, sometimes we're great, like family, and [...]